Coping with addiction

Whether it's alcohol, other drugs, gambling or another behaviour that's taken on a life of its own, addiction responds to compassionate, evidence-based support, not shame.
Dr Zoe Case
June 19, 2026

Summary

  • Addiction is a health condition, not a moral failing or a lack of willpower.
  • A psychologist helps you understand the patterns and build a way out, at your pace.
  • Sessions can be Medicare-rebated with a GP Mental Health Treatment Plan.

Addiction can take hold around alcohol, drugs, gambling, or other behaviours that started as a way to cope. It is not about being weak. It is about something that once offered relief slowly taking over. If you are caught in that, you are not broken, and change is possible, even if it has not worked before.

Support is available: the National Alcohol and Other Drug Hotline (1800 250 015) and Lifeline 13 11 14 are there any time. In an emergency, call 000.

Why willpower alone rarely works

If stopping were simply a matter of trying harder, you would have done it already. Addiction changes how the brain handles reward and stress, and it usually sits on top of something else, like pain, trauma or anxiety. Treatment works because it addresses the whole picture, not just the behaviour.

What therapy looks like

A psychologist meets you without judgement, wherever you are. The work might focus on understanding your triggers, building other ways to cope, and handling the slips that are often part of recovery. The goal is progress, not perfection, and you set the pace.

Getting started

A GP can talk things through and write a Mental Health Treatment Plan for rebated sessions. If someone you love is the one struggling, our guide to loving someone with an addiction is for you.

Frequently asked questions

Is addiction a choice?

No. It is a recognised health condition that changes how the brain works. Treatment, not blame, is what helps.

What if I have tried to quit before and failed?

That is common and not a reason to give up. Many people stop and start several times before lasting change sticks.

Do I have to quit completely to get help?

No. You can seek support at any stage, including while you are still using or unsure about stopping.

Can I get help by telehealth?

Yes. Many people find the privacy of a video session makes it easier to start.

Important: This is general information, not personal medical advice. Addiction is best supported by registered practitioners and specialist services. In a crisis, call Lifeline 13 11 14 or 000.
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